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Wednesday, December 26, 2012

How Do I Tell My Partner I Have Herpes

Generally, genital herpes will not cause any other major health problems if you are, by and large, a healthy person.

However, genital herpes can affect you in ways other than physical health. Concern about outbreaks or of spreading the disease to your partner or your baby may cause you to feel scared, anxious, stressed, and even depressed. Also, depending on how you contracted the disease, you may feel betrayed, angry, and alone. How can you break the news without breaking up?

◆ Pick a comfortable location, where you feel comfortable and the surrounds are familiar.
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◆ Compose your thoughts, and plan what you are going to say in advance. You don't want to be too blunt. She may not take the news so well.

◆ Begin by complimenting her.

◆ Lay it all out there. Tell her that you have an STD. Explain in detail what it is and what it means for your relationship if the two of you decide to have a sexual relationship.

◆ Tell her the ways that she can avoid getting it from you, so that she has an understanding that things can still work for both of you. If you are in an advanced, adult relationship, you will probably also need to be ready to allay her anxieties about having children. Know your facts on this ground rather than making anything up; have the information already. Think of options, such as adoption, if this causes an issue.

◆ And really when it comes down to it... You need to speak with someone that is going through the same thing as you. If you do not have a close doctor or partner to share and discuss this with, you are likely to find additional advice through an online Support Group.

Tips
Though you may be very familiar with your surroundings, stay away from public areas to avoid any embarrassment.

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13 comments:

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  13. I'm 24 and I have taxed myself on being a good person - up until a year ago when I was diagnosed of genital warts. I told my boyfriend with the assumption that he had given them to me (although we have protected sex). He went to the doctor but he didn't have them I then realized that I must have contacted them from a past partner with whom I had unprotected sex with (it happened just two times) I went to the doctor to get full blood screening for everything including HIV I also had my annual pap. The tests came back clean after a spell of trouble at work and a deep depression with suicidal thought. I sought therapy and things became more expensive. Eight months after we worked it all out my boyfriend told me that he was falling out of love with me
    Its been over nine months since we broke up and I don't know how to go on I have been on one date since then I just can't seem to get close to anyone because I'm too afraid that they would leave me once they found out about my situation. Living have been hell for me till early this year when I decided to give herbal a trial. I have been told and have seen many testimonies about African herbalist and how DR UTU have cured many people of many diseases. I collected his contact drutuherbalcure@gmail.com. That's the man who changed my condition today to better. He sent me herbal medicine from Africa which after 8days of use he told me to go for Lab test I waited a week before going for test and I was negative, Am clean again and ready to mingle. I think I learnt a lot from my past predicament. Life is a school and I believe every condition is a lesson to learn.

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